Wisdom

Optimism: The One Quality That Will Change Your Life

Optimism: The One Quality That Will Change Your Life

Cultivate an attitude of optimism. If you have a perspective that “life is hard,” “bad things always happen,” “nothing ever works out for me,” ask yourself how that is serving you. Remember, the law of attraction says “like attracts like” so if you are constantly thinking negatively, that is exactly what you are attracting

Self-Care: How Do You Know When You Need It (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: How Do You Know When You Need It (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-care is a practice of paying attention to what you are doing and how you are being in life. It is taking care of yourself by attending to the wellness of your body, mind, and spirit. At the heart of self-care is your relationship and connection to self. It is understanding what you need to be your most constructive, effective, and authentic self. I believe it is essential to living healthy, wholeheartedly, and happy.

Self-Care: Stay Curious (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Stay Curious (#28SelfCareHacks)

One of the lessons that I have integrated into my life from Yoga is being in inquiry. To stay curious and have a beginner’s mind continuously opens one up to new learning, different experiences, and a lot less resistance. I hate to say that I now have limited patience for those who think they know it all. Yoga has taught me that there is the potential for limitless learning — about life, about myself, about the world — which by the way changes EVERY DAMN DAY. How can anyone think that there isn’t something else to learn about one thing or everything for that matter.

Self-Care: Be A Morning Person (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Be A Morning Person (#28SelfCareHacks)

Are you someone who says “I’m not a morning person"“? Well, you could be a morning person if you choose to be. I’m the first person to admit that I love to sleep in but I have learned that there are so many benefits of waking up early (yes, I mean with the sunrise) and starting my day at this time never fails to be a little bit magical.

Self-Care: Ask for Help (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Ask for Help (#28SelfCareHacks)

Today I want you to think of something you need help with. Big or small. And then ask someone to help you. Yep, you heard me. ASK. FOR. HELP.

Self-Care: The Key to True Authenticity (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: The Key to True Authenticity (#28SelfCareHacks)

Do you feel guilty when you focus on self-care? When you actually put your needs in front of others? I used to for a long time and even when I heard the comparison of putting our oxogen mask on first while in a plane before others, I still didn’t put myself first. Until I had twins as a single mother.

Self-Care: Hydrate (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Hydrate (#28SelfCareHacks)

We all know that we should stay hydrated but to be honest, I didn’t realize how many benefits we receive from drinking enough water each day. If you are hungry, hungover, tired, constipated, depressed, unfocused, have a backache….drink more water!

Self-Care: I Love You! (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: I Love You! (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self love is the foundation of self-care. Louise Hay, who was an author and founder of Hay House Publishing, used to talk about the importance of learning to love oneself as a pre-requisite to attracting joy, wellness, happiness, abundance, etc. into one’s life.

Self-Care: End The Cycle of Deprivation (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: End The Cycle of Deprivation (#28SelfCareHacks)

When there is a lot of stress, many fall into a cycle of deprivation of some sort. It could be emotional support (not asking for help), sleep, exercise, eating healthy, peace (i.e. worrying too much), companionship, fun etc. Focus on figuring out what you need now.

Self-Care: Care-Less (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Care-Less (#28SelfCareHacks)

One of my greatest life lessons was to stop caring about what other people think of me. Many of past decisions as a young adult were not made from a place of what I really wanted but were based on how I thought others would perceive them and me.

28 Days of Self-Care (#28Selfcarehacks)

28 Days of Self-Care (#28Selfcarehacks)

My plan, each day this month, is to introduce you to new self-care options and practices that will inspire you to make self-care an important daily ritual. I am calling these 28 Self-Care Hacks. Many are quick, simple, and free! Try some of them out and let me know how they make you feel! Pick the ones that work for you and consider making them part of your daily or weekly routine.