Happiness

Optimism: The One Quality That Will Change Your Life

Optimism: The One Quality That Will Change Your Life

Cultivate an attitude of optimism. If you have a perspective that “life is hard,” “bad things always happen,” “nothing ever works out for me,” ask yourself how that is serving you. Remember, the law of attraction says “like attracts like” so if you are constantly thinking negatively, that is exactly what you are attracting

Top 10 Reasons You Should Retreat!

Top 10 Reasons You Should Retreat!

In 2001, I went on my first yoga retreat. It was only a weekend in Connecticut, not a week in an exotic destination, but it changed me forever. It showed me that I could really relax, learn new things, deepen my yoga practice, but most of all experience a unique experience with like-people who were also there to find respite from the usual busyness and possibly some clarity on life.

Self-Care: Just Say No (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Just Say No (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-care is a practice of attending to a wider set of criteria, including care of the mind, emotions, relationships, environment, time, and resources. This includes setting boundaries to protect your time, energy and emotional needs. Sometimes this means just saying no.

Self-Care: Be A Morning Person (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Be A Morning Person (#28SelfCareHacks)

Are you someone who says “I’m not a morning person"“? Well, you could be a morning person if you choose to be. I’m the first person to admit that I love to sleep in but I have learned that there are so many benefits of waking up early (yes, I mean with the sunrise) and starting my day at this time never fails to be a little bit magical.

Self-Care: Have An Unscheduled, Delightful Day (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Have An Unscheduled, Delightful Day (#28SelfCareHacks)

Every now and then it is so great to just take a day off of business as usual. Take one full unscheduled day and do whatever your body, mind, and spirit are calling for. Do not do chores or take care of everyday responsibilities. Treat this day as a staycation.

Self-Care: Ditch the Negative Thoughts (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Ditch the Negative Thoughts (#28SelfCareHacks)

Research on mindfulness has shown that the average person has 12,000 – 60,000 thoughts a day, 95% are the same as yesterday but more staggering is 80% are negative. Therefore, based on this data we have on average 3.5 – 17.5 Million negative thoughts per year!! NO F’ING JOKE. Who wants to live like that?

Self-Care: Ask for Help (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Ask for Help (#28SelfCareHacks)

Today I want you to think of something you need help with. Big or small. And then ask someone to help you. Yep, you heard me. ASK. FOR. HELP.

Self-Care: Get Your Hair Done (#28selfcarehacks)

Self-Care: Get Your Hair Done (#28selfcarehacks)

I remember when I was young my grandmothers, mother and my mother’s friends all going to get their “hair done”. They didn’t necessarily get a haircut but treated themselves to a blowout, as we say now, or getting it styled and set for the week. This usually involved curlers or and curling irons and a lot of hairspray! My mom didn’t do much for herself, but she did do this and now I know why.

Self-Care: Good Enough is Good Enough (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Good Enough is Good Enough (#28SelfCareHacks)

Letting go of perfectionism is a huge self-care hack.

Perfectionism can lead to anxiety, self-judgement, feelings of failure and worst of all, it sometimes stops us from beginning a new goal or taking a risk.

Self-Care: I Love You! (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: I Love You! (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self love is the foundation of self-care. Louise Hay, who was an author and founder of Hay House Publishing, used to talk about the importance of learning to love oneself as a pre-requisite to attracting joy, wellness, happiness, abundance, etc. into one’s life.

Self-Care: Give yourself Compassion (#28SelfCareHacks)

Self-Care: Give yourself Compassion (#28SelfCareHacks)

I hate being moody. I get mad at myself whenever I am in a funk, not giving myself permission to feel sad, unmotivated, or just plain cranky. Pema Chodron, beloved Buddhist teacher and author, says “having compassion starts and ends with having compassion for all those unwanted parts of ourselves. The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy.” Not giving myself the room to feel the whole breadth of emotions in life is not giving myself compassion. I’m pretty good at giving others compassion especially when they are having a rough time, but not myself.